Emily O’Ryan of Postcards to Parliament, 1000 Women Trust join forces to eradicate GBV

Karen Painter • Oct 30, 2022

The harrowing experience of Emily O’ Ryan while at the University of Stellenbosch when she witnessed the gender-based violence to which three of her fellow students were subjected, prompted her to start an NPC which has set a new trend in bringing the second pandemic and its depressing impact on the youth, to the doorstep of lawmakers in parliament.

O’Ryan founded Post 2 Parliament (P2P), an NPC focused on mobilizing the youth to write letters about the impact of gender-based violence on their own lives, and urging ministers and the portfolio committee for women, children and people with disabilities to act decisively to deal with the scourges of rape and femicide in the community.

While at the University Stellenbosch as student, O’Ryan saw the physical evidence of a brutal attack of a perpetrator of gender-based violence on a flatmate

The friend walked into her room battered and bruised by a boyfriend.

Shortly afterwards, she heard how another house mate was raped at knife point.

Because the friend of hers had let the rapist into her room, the national prosecuting authority decided not to prosecute the offender, something that left O’Ryan surprised and bewildered.

On a third instance, she sat next to a classmate at the hairdresser one Friday in Stellenbosch, and just a week later, saw that the same friend’s face was on the front page of newspaper, as she was gang raped and killed. The shocking accounts of the murder of Hannah Cornelius who was raped and then killed in cold blood, made international headlines.

“I started P2P o focus on the education and healing of young people subjected to gender-based violence. We also send letters to the portfolio committee for women, children and people with disabilities as well as the responsible minister to make them aware of the impact of gender-based violence on the community,” she said.

Post 2 Parliament is also joining forces with 1000 Women Trust to present anti-bullying courses as well as the Talking-to-boys-program which focuses on the role of parents to invest time with their sons to instil values like non-violence, gender equality and respect in the relationship with women and girls, into teens and adolescents.

O’Ryan said she researched the work done in Kenya by schools whose six-week interventions with boys about gender-based violence which resulted in 75 % of boys reporting physical attacks on girls to the authorities after the intervention. After the intervention, 78 % of boys also were more inclined to report verbal bullying to the authorities.

“Our focus as Post  2 Parliament and 1000 Women Trust would be to roll out the anti-bullying courses and Talking to Boys at as many schools as possible in order to eradicate gender-based violence,” said O’Ryan.

“I really like the work that 1000 Women Trust is doing. It is a great organization to work with because they have the muscle,” she said.

She also said Post 2 Parliament would prioritize the importance of mobilizing the youth to approach parliament about pressing gender-based violence issues in order to pressurize law-makers and cabinet ministers to implementing reforms in order to eradicate gender-based violence completely.

O’Ryan who has an honours degree in international and political studies said she is acutely aware of the fact that if students at University Stellenbosch has been targeted, although they are in a slightly protected environment, women elsewhere were even more vulnerable to attacks by perpetrators of gender-based violence.

Therefore it is vitally important for NGOs to work in partnerships to root out this scourge.

1000 Women Trust is a Women’s organisation that raises awareness around gender-based violence, rape and abuse and mobilise resources that make it possible for the Trust to assist women-led organisations with grants and skills development.

For more information, visit the Trust on  www.1000women.co.za  or send a mail to  info@1000women.co.za.

by Karen Specter 12 May, 2024
Delft-police violated human rights of rape victim by turning person away, demanding a witness, warns experts Care-givers and NGOs leading the fight against gender-based violence in the Western Cape are appalled at what they call repeated critical failures by police-officers after a police officer at the Delft Police station’s community service centre turned away a rape victim on Tuesday 7 th May and demanded that the survivo brings a witness before a case can be opened. Dr Genine Josias, medical coordinator at the Thuthuzela Clinical Forensic Centre at the Karl Bremer Hospital, said on Facebook that a person reported the rape at the police station in Delft, a GBV-hotspot in the Western Cape, on Tuesday afternoon, 7 th May. The police officer questioned why the victim waited so long to open a case and then told the survivor to bring a witness before the case can be opened. Apparently, the witness walked in on the crime but was not available to accompany the survivor to the police station, so the victim and the witness returned to Delft police station the following morning, Wednesday 8 th May, Dr Josias said. She said this wrong actions by the police is not an isolated incident, but happens repeatedly and affects rape-survivors as some of the traumatized victims might decide not to return the next day. “The police must open the case immediately and should not be asking rape survivors for witnesses. They also should not question why they waited 48 hours as many victims suffer severe trauma and don’t report it immediately.” she said. She said the action by the police-officer is not an isolated incident, but this is a serial offense as it happens again and again. “This is not the first time that police wrongly turn rape survivors away. We report it via email to the police via email as requested by management, but they repeat this,” Josias said. “There is no political will,” she said on Facebook. “There are no consequences. There are no checks and balances. The police officer is not even identifiable. Where are the cameras in the charge offices of the police stations or so-called community service centres,”she asked. Tina Thiart, executive trustee of 1000 Women Trust, women-led organization that have been fighting gender-based violence the past 21 years, said: “We at 1000 Women Trust are appalled at the behaviour of the police. We urge women who experience bad service at the police station to report it to us and to the IPID on its hotline number of 0800 111969 . It is due to the action of police officers like the one in Delft that the conviction rate of sexual offenses is so low. Thiart said when 1000 Women Trust facilitated #HearMeToo-groups the past three years where women all over the country shared their experiences about GBV in groups of 30. “The common theme at these sessions were that women often experienced animosity at police stations, and cases were not opened against perpetrators of GBV. Despite the fact that three new GBV-laws were promulgated in 2022, we have not turned the tide against gender-based violence because we lose the battle at ground level – due to the attitudes of the male offenders, and the lack of empathetic assistance and pro-active help at police stations,” she said. More than 42000 South African women were raped in the previous year and 15284 women were sexually assaulted from 1 st September to 31 st December 2023. According to the Women’s Legal Centre, the conviction rate of sexual assaults in South Africa is between 5 and 6 %. “As health workers, we have a 72-hour deadline in which to give HIV prevention medication to rape victims,” said Dr Josias. “Due to the victim being turned away at Delft Police Station, the client missed the 72 hour deadline, which expired on Tuesday evening. This police officer violated the human rights of this victim in more ways than one. In fact, this victim can sue the SAPS for failing to assist timeously. The investigation officer of the FCS unit was not informed that a victim reported a rape at Delft police station on Tuesday afternoon. If the officers of the family violence, child protection sexual offenses unit or FCS received HIV prevention medication, the hiv status of the rapist is unknown, so all victims of rape must be encouraged to access medical services as soon as possible after a rape. At the Thuthuzela centre, containment counselling, prevention of STIs as well as emergency contraception in certain instances are provided. Victims are also provided with the option to take a shower and a comfort pack with toiletries are provided . Social workers are also called in if the victim is not safe to return home. Services at the Thuthuzela centres are free. Dr Josias said the investigating officers of the family violence, child protection sexual offenses unit (or FCS) are not paid overtime on public holidays and weekends yet the police management expect them to work overtime and act by which the police fails the victims of gender-based violence in South Africa. In every charge office of all police stations, there should be large posters, advising victims of sexual offenses to go directly to a Thuthuzela centre or the nearest health facility, especially if the police office turns people away. The contact number and address of the nearest Thuthuzela centre of health facility should be displayed on these posters, said Dr Josias. Caroline Peters, director of the Dallas-foundation fighting GBV, said on Facebook: “All police officers at stations should receive training on handling situation when people report GBV.”
by Karen Specter 12 May, 2024
PRESS RELEASE ON BEHALF OF 1000 WOMEN TRUST: 11 TH MAY 2024 FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE 1000 Women Trust reach out with anti-bullying toolkit in wake of Brandfort-tragedy The women-led organization 1000 Women Trust who have developed a comprehensive anti-bullying toolkit to equip thousands of South African teachers, says that in the wake of a tragic bully-related death of an 11-year old boy in Brandfort, it would like to partner with teachers and educational departments to share their anti-bullying resources on how to report the scourge and root out a culture of bullying in schools. Tina Thiart, executive trustee of 1000 Women Trust, spoke in the wake of an incident on Wednesday 8 th May where Kamogelo Leepile, an 11-year old boy-learner from WSM Malotle Primary School in Brandfort, Free State, was stabbed and killed by a 9-year old grade 4-learner form a neighbouring Monamodi Primary School. “We have heard about the terrible incident and want to express our heartfelt condolences with the family of Kamogelo,” Thiart said. “The incident greatly saddens us and we wish to reach out to school communities who battle to deal with a culture of bullying. We have compiled an anti-bullying toolkit which will provide resources for teachers, parents, schools and educational departments to address bullying in all forms. It can be accessed on www.antibully.co.za . “There are also a range of values that parents can share with their school-going children in order to train them to be non-violent and respectful to other learners. It can be accessed on www.talkingtoboys.co.za ,” Thiart said. “We also provide regular anti-bullying training to teachers and parents, which has been very popular. Since its inception, more than 5000 parents and teachers have received training. Teachers who want to access training, can WhatsUpp Thiart on 073-2079079 . “We have also trained trauma councillors that visit schools to share the necessary skills with teachers on how to address bullying. When a learner at a Limpopo school committed suicide in 2021, we partnered with the Limpopo department of education and sent trauma councillors to four schools in the region in order to share important skills with teachers on anti-bullying mechanisms,” Thiart said. “We do have the man-power, the skills and the resources to assist schools as we are grieving the untimely and continuous harm to bullied children in South Africa,” Thiart added. Thiart said the best deterrent to bullying and cyberbullying in schools is to create a culture of acceptance and communication. Such a culture empowers learners to find positive ways to revolve conflicts, while counting on the administration, teachers and other staff who can support learners in making constructive decisions and respond proactively when aggression of any kind exists on the school campus. Schools must establish an anti-bullying policy with input from all members of your school community to determine how your school will implement rules of conduct. Put into action a school-wide plan – disseminate a bullying prevention plan that involves all adults on campus in knowing how to support positive behaviour, address unacceptable actions and refer learners who need additional counselling. Participate in anti-bullying campaigns and organise workshops for teachers and parents. Daniel Moloi, director of the Agape Foundation of Community Building, who attended the 1000 Women Trust anti-bullying course, endorsed and applauded the course, saying it is practical, hard-hitting and user-friendly for learners. “It creates awareness of bullying and how it can be prevented. We presented the material at a primary school in the Thabo Mofutsanyana District Municipality and it had a profound impact. “The material corresponds with the life skills material and is compliant with the school safety framework of the department of education,” Moloi said. Press release compiled on behalf of 1000 Women Trust by Fanie Heyns. For more information, contact Tina Thiart on 073-2079079 or Adrie Jurgensen on 083-4418256 .
by Karen Specter 01 May, 2024
The three new GBV-laws which were signed by President Cyril Ramaphosa in January 2022, aimed at strengthening efforts to end gender-based violence in South Africa, were a major factor in enforcing the legal framework against these crimes. Yet many South African women still face major social and economic barriers before they report the violence they are subjected to, said Andrea-Joy Jantjies, associate of the Women’s Legal Centre. The three new GBV-laws are the Criminal and Related Matters Amendment Act, the Criminal Law (Sexual Offences and Related Matters) Amendment Act and the Domestic Violence Amendment Act. Jantjies said many SA women who are in relationships with their perpetrators are dependent on the perpetrator of gender-based violence for economic support for themselves and the children. Other barriers include, legal illiteracy, which means victims are not always aware of their legal rights. Another barrier is that women who want to report abuse still have to pay transportation costs when going to the police and some of them simply don’t have the means. When women do report the matter to the police, they are sometimes told that is a private matter between a man and his partner. There remains a need for further awareness raising to change attitudes of service providers that confines domestic violence to the private sphere, because this contributes to a culture of impunity. A lack of victim support also contributes to the fact that some women withdraw the case against the perpetrators after they have reported the abuse. Police are supposed to provide victims with a list of available shelters where they can feel safe and are not intimidated by the perpetrator, but they don’t always provide that information to women who suffer from gender-based violence. The lack of knowledge by the victims of their rights and of the three new GBV-laws still undermines the effectiveness of these laws. For example, the safety monitoring notice will make sure that a police official will check on victims’ safety regularly by telephone or in person for a specified period, but many women are not aware of this additional protective mechanism to ensure their safety. “There are mandatory and effective training of various departments of the police and the judiciary with regards to the GBV laws, but constant capacity building is required with regards to this training of the judiciary and the police,” said Jantjies. The three new GBV-laws do not address the culture and violence against women in South Africa by predominantly men, evidenced by the fact that from 1 st September 2023 until 31 st December last year there were 18254 sexual offences reported – 168.9 per day - an indication of how much GBV is still the second pandemic. “The numbers of GBV-victims are staggering and are comparable to countries actively at war. The reality is that one in every five women in South Africa is a victim of gender-based violence,” said Jantjies. “The patriarchal norms in society as well as the legacy of violence and poverty contribute to the perpetuation of gender-based violence. And so often women are stigmatized and wrongly blamed for GBV,” said Jantjies.
by Karen Specter 07 Apr, 2024
The three new GBV-laws and the new dedicated desks at police offices in gender-based violence hotspots will strengthen women in the fight against the second pandemic, said Leonora Sauls, new trustee of 1000 Women Trust. Sauls is also the head of philanthropy of the Ackerman Family Foundation. Know the GBV-laws is part of a new campaign by 1000 Women Trust to challenge women around the country to equip themselves legally in case of domestic violence. The three new GBV-laws are: the criminal Law (sexual offences and related matters) amendment act, the criminal and related matters amendment act and the domestic violence amendment act. Said Sauls: The domestic violence amendment bill expands the definition of domestic violence to include actions as controlling or bullying behaviour and makes provisions for protecting people in engagements, dating and in customary relationships. The criminal and related matters amendment bill amends various laws that address GBV and offences committed against vulnerable people, she said. It also provides for additional procedures to reduce secondary victimisation of vulnerable people in court proceedings. It further regulates protection orders in response to domestic violence, she added. Sauls said: “Government is making progress in establishing dedicated desks at police stations in GBV hotspots. The desks are staffed by police officers who are specifically trained to provide victim-centred assistance and support. There are now 134 desks in operation and the goal is to have a GBV desk in all police stations countrywide. In my view, these bills as well as the GBV desks will strengthen the fight against GBV,” she added. Asked how gender equality in the South African workplace can be enhanced, Sauls said there must be a rethink of systems. Senior leaders must consider and understand what organizational policies and practices may be seen as supportive or dismissive of talented women, and shift toward more inclusive leadership . Best-practice organizations have an all-encompassing, systematic agenda to tackle gender equity in the workplace and are focused on supporting, retaining, and promoting diversity of all kinds. She said another way of enhancing gender equality in the workplace is to establish and execute flexible work agreements. Flexible work arrangements can take many forms, and even before the pandemic, flexibility was frequently cited as one of the key things wanted by women in the workplace . With the global shift toward more hybrid and remote ways of working, your organization will surely improve employee retention post-pandemic with flexible work arrangements . But even more important than establishing flexible policies is ensuring that employees feel truly “safe” to take advantage of them, said Fauls. Asked what other steps could be taken to eradicate the scourge of gender-based violence in South Africa, Sauls highlighted the following steps. Women’s full participation in civil society Programs that will facilitate financial independence for women. Providing accessible GBV clinical services in lower tier health facilities Addressing the needs of child survivors of gender-based violence. Support programs for all women in and outside of the workplace
by Karen Specter 21 Mar, 2024
The courageous and tireless gender advocate Marinda Lottering is waging war with limited resources against perpetrators of gender-based violence in the Central-Karoo who use their economic power as leverage to attack and assault helpless women – something that has become endemic in Beaufort-Wes and Laingsburg. Lottering has started a temporary emergency shelter in the heart of Beaufort-West in order to cater for women who are subjected to gender-based violence. These women, who lay charges at the police station, normally awaits transport to the closest shelter in Laingsburg, but Lottering does not want to leave them on the street while they wait. The facility will also serve as a GBV advice office for women in Beaufort West. “Last year, 1000 Women Trust and I had a Karoo-project where we held meetings and workshops for women who were victims of gender-based violence. The purpose of those meetings in Beaufort-West was to empower women on what they are to do when they are subjected to gender-based violence, where to go to for assistance, how to apply for an eviction order. “We also did training with many of these women to empower them on how to find their way out of abuse,” Lottering said. “Gender-based violence in Beaufort-Wes and surrounding towns of the Central-Karoo is rife. One of the biggest challenges is that more than 50 % of people in the area are without jobs. So many women are without work, they depend on men who drink heavily or use drugs and who abuse them. “These men consider women as their inferiors and as their objects. And when the women want to go to the police office, the perpetrators threaten them with more violence and tell them they will withhold money for food from them. And some of these women don’t have the skills to escape the cycle of violence and stay trapped,” says Lottering. “The courses I have done with 1000 Women Trust like the trauma training, anti-bullying and life skills training have been enormously helpful. Last year, we trained 37 women in Beaufort-West with the 1000 Women Trust material and 27 in Laingsburg with the same material,” Lottering added. One of the greatest challenges she faces, is to leverage support. 1000 Women Trust had been in the past and still is a life saver, but she needs other support as well. “I cannot do it on my own. I have called for a meeting for next week with the South African Police Services, the department of social development and churches in Beaufort-West in order to find help and solutions with the sky-high levels of gender-based violence.” Asked about the role of the church, Lottering said some of the churches in the Central-Karoo don’t help as some members of their senior management are guilty of the same problems that are so evident in the community and that is that they are perpetrators of gender-based violence themselves. Lottering said the most pressing need for her right now is office equipment, as well as food supplies as there is a high prevalence of women on the street who were violently assaulted and who have to fend for themselves and their children without food or drink. If people want to assist Lottering, they can email her on lotteringmarinda607@gmail.com or contact 1000 Women on WhatsApp 0614690479 Tina Thiart, trustee of 1000 Women Trust, welcomed the establishment of the emergency shelter in Beaufort West and congratulated Lottering for taking the brave step. “It was our objective with the Karoo-project (to establish the shelter). We urge our members and friends to donate to the GBV Advice Office,” said Thiart.  The mission of 1000 Women Trust is to raise awareness, empower survivors and work towards eradicating all forms of violence against women. The Trust firmly believes that by uniting their voices, they can create lasting change and build a safer world for women and girls everywhere. To contact the Trust, send us a mail on info@1000women.co.za .
by Karen Specter 12 Mar, 2024
The pamphlets and the anti-bullying-toolkit of 1000 Women Trust have played a significant role in assisting the social worker Eunice Maseema, who is a leading activist in fighting gangsterism and bullying in the Jafta Mahlangu secondary school in Mamelodi-West. Maseema is a social worker of the Moses Mabhida Foundation. She says she has benefited from the anti-bullying material from 1000 Women Trust, women-led organization that combats gender-based violence. “The challenge we face at the adopted schools in Mamelodi is that there is a lot of gangsterism around the schools in the area as well as substance abuse, which plays a role in perpetuating bullying in the Jafta Mahlangu-school,” says Maseeema. “We have had incidences where learners who had taken in some substances, physically assaulted teachers at the school,” she says. “Our role is not only to conduct talks at the school and target perpetrators with the message that bullying is not cool. But we also have group sessions regularly – either after school or on weekends. “Furthermore, we take hands with other stakeholders to challenge learners who are bullies. We are in close contact with all the South African Police Services in Mamelodi. The embassy of Qatar has also provided us with more computers to help bullies pursue a different career patch. “We have reached out to parents in the community with the central message that bullying is inhumane and has severe consequences,” Maseema said. “The material of 1000 Women Trust has contributed to the skills development of the social workers and we have also positive feedback from learners who read the pamphlets of 1000 Women Trust.” Maseema said one of the greatest challenges that the social workers at the schools face, is how to break the connection between bullying and gangsterism and eradicate the negative cycle of anti-social behaviour. “Some of the learners join the gangs around the school at age 11. When they join, they receive R100 and when they try to leave the gangs, they have to pay R2000 to the gangs. “A challenge is to help learners see the positive role models who do not engage in bullying. Because many of those role models leave the area to join greener pastures. “But some of the learners drop out because they want to join the ranks of gang members who have smart cars,” Maseema added. “We have had some success as some learners dropped out, but due to our interventions they came back to school again. We try and enforce a procedure whereby every learner is checked by teachers, and social workers to attend every period of school “if we have more resources, we want to spread the work that we are doing, to the whole of Mamelodi, not only schools in Mamelodi West. Currently we focus on two primary schools and the Jafta Mahlanga secondary school. We aim to enlarge our footprint. “Another challenge is we need more money to purchase several computes to teach learners more skills as to much free time can exacerbate the problem of bullying,” said Maseema. It is well-known that 57 % of the 2.2 million South African learners have been subjected to bullying throughout their lifetime, and that 90 % of bullies later on become perpetrators of gender-based violence. In 2023, a total of 2981 learners in South Africa did the hart-hitting trauma buddy training of 1000 Women Trust. The Trust’s mission is to raise awareness, empower survivors and work towards eradicate all forms of violence against women. The Trust firmly believes that by uniting their voices, they can create lasting change and build a safer world for women and girls everywhere. For more information on what 1000 Women Trust is doing, visit www.antibully.co.za, visit the website on www.1000women.co.za or send Tina Thiart a WhatsApp on 0732079079 if you want your school or teachers or parents to do the anti-bullying course.
by Karen Specter 07 Mar, 2024
As we commemorate International Women's Day on March 8th, the 1000 Women Trust is proud to launch its "Know The Law" campaign. With a focus on inspiring, educating, equipping, and empowering women and women-led organisations, this initiative aims to simplify legal jargon and make crucial amendments accessible to all. In 2022, the government introduced three significant amendments addressing key issues affecting women's safety and rights. These amendments streamline protection order applications, ensure the seriousness of harassment claims by state police, and hold offenders accountable with appropriate punitive measures. Over the next few weeks, 1000 Women Trust will delve into each of these laws to keep individuals informed and engaged. Through social media, website resources, and interactive discussions, the campaign seeks to empower women with knowledge and foster gender equality. "At 1000 Women, we believe that knowledge is power," says Founding Trustee, Tina Thiart from 1000 Women Trust. "Our 'Know The Law' campaign embodies our commitment to empowering individuals through education and awareness. By understanding these amendments, women can better protect themselves and advocate for change."  As part of the campaign, individuals are encouraged to share information with friends and family who may benefit from the resources provided. Together, under the hashtag #1000Women1Voice, the community can advocate for change, invest in women, and foster gender equality. Follow our "Know The Law" campaign and join the conversation on our Facebook and Instagram social media pages – 1000 Women 1 Voice.
by Karen Specter 26 Feb, 2024
Equipping women with the awareness of what bullying and gender-based violence is, what their rights are, where they can report this abuse and how they can get out of the cycle of violence, but also empowering them with skills to design bags and pillows, is part of Fransien Nzika’s role in the City of Ekurhuleni.  Nzika, equipped with course material provided by 1000 Women Trust on gender-based violence, bullying and trauma training counselling, embarked on the work of touching the hearts of hundreds of women subjected to gender-based violence just after COVID-19. “We have taught the women what gender-based violence is, what their rights are, where they can phone for help or where to go to in order to receive assistance if the police officers are not sympathetic,” said Nzika. But Nzika has also seen it as her role to help women understand that they can be self-sufficient, that they have what it takes to succeed economically without having to rely heavily on men who are perpetrators of gender-based violence. “Many women lack the confidence and have that mindset that a man must take care of them. I empower them to be self-sufficient and don’t need a man. One of the things that is challenging is that some of these women who were subjected to repeated gender-based violence, withdraw the charges simply because they are economically dependent,” said Nzika. “The magnitude of gender-based violence in Ekurhuleni is quite massive, but many women do not talk about it,” she said. The group sessions that she has had, utilizing the 1000 Women Trust-material, has been popular. There are free food and drinks, provided by 1000 Women Trust. “So many of these women come an go, but some do return for more sessions. “It is not merely group sessions. We also empower them by teaching them to do design work of products like pillows and handbags, and it is quite uplifting as it create awareness that they do have the skills to become independent,” said Nzika. Nzika works meticulously on doing follow-up calls to women whom she has not seen for a while an prompted by Nzika, they come back. She has made some progress in the never-ending fight against gender-based violence perpetrators, but says the biggest challenge is still that women in Ekurhuleni suffers in silence and hide the scale of GBV in their communities or are stuck in abusive relationships and lack the will to get out of the cycle by being self-employed. Lucretia Samsam is a tireless worker and community activist who utilizes the 100 Women Trust anti-bullying toolkit and information about gender-based violence to change hearts and minds in Freedom Park, an informal settlement in Ottery. But Samsam has also wandered over to Gugulethu to share information about the danger of bullying and cyber bullying with women in the township. She has also engaged with learners and teachers from Ferndale Primary school where her daughter is a learner. “One of the objectives of my work is to make people in Freedom Park aware on the meaning of Human Rights day on the 21nd March and how we as community collectively can fight crime,” she said. Samsam is currently not employed, but said she is absolutely passionate about helping children and adults about the dangers of bullying and cyberbullying. “One of the greatest achievements of my work though using the 1000 Women Trust course material is that I have created enormous awareness amongst children of the dangers of bullying and how they can fight for themselves to fend off bullies, but also how they can engage with teachers to help protect them from perpetrators of bullying,” said Samsam. “One of the greatest enjoyments of my work is that when I walk across a field in Freedom Park, they shout my name, they know what I am doing and that I am making a difference,” she adds. 1000 Women Trust is a women-led organization whose mission it is to raise awareness, empower survivors and work towards eradicating all forms of violence against women. The Trust firmly believes that by uniting their voices, they can create lasting change and build a safer world for women and girls everywhere.
by Karen Specter 18 Feb, 2024
Equipping women with the awareness of what bullying and gender-based violence is, what their rights are, where they can report this abuse and how they can get out of the cycle of violence, but also empowering them with skills to design bags and pillows, is part of Fransien Nzika’s role in the City of Ekurhuleni.  Nzika, equipped with course material provided by 1000 Women Trust on gender-based violence, bullying and trauma training counselling, embarked on the work of touching the hearts of hundreds of women subjected to gender-based violence just after COVID-19. “We have taught the women what gender-based violence is, what their rights are, where they can phone for help or where to go to in order to receive assistance if the police officers are not sympathetic,” said Nzika. But Nzika has also seen it as her role to help women understand that they can be self-sufficient, that they have what it takes to succeed economically without having to rely heavily on men who are perpetrators of gender-based violence. “Many women lack the confidence and have that mindset that a man must take care of them. I empower them to be self-sufficient and don’t need a man. One of the things that is challenging is that some of these women who were subjected to repeated gender-based violence, withdraw the charges simply because they are economically dependent,” said Nzika. “The magnitude of gender-based violence in Ekurhuleni is quite massive, but many women do not talk about it,” she said. The group sessions that she has had, utilizing the 1000 Women Trust-material, has been popular. There are free food and drinks, provided by 1000 Women Trust. “So many of these women come an go, but some do return for more sessions. “It is not merely group sessions. We also empower them by teaching them to do design work of products like pillows and handbags, and it is quite uplifting as it create awareness that they do have the skills to become independent,” said Nzika. Nzika works meticulously on doing follow-up calls to women whom she has not seen for a while an prompted by Nzika, they come back. She has made some progress in the never-ending fight against gender-based violence perpetrators, but says the biggest challenge is still that women in Ekurhuleni suffers in silence and hide the scale of GBV in their communities or are stuck in abusive relationships and lack the will to get out of the cycle by being self-employed. Lucretia Samsam is a tireless worker and community activist who utilizes the 100 Women Trust anti-bullying toolkit and information about gender-based violence to change hearts and minds in Freedom Park, an informal settlement in Ottery. But Samsam has also wandered over to Gugulethu to share information about the danger of bullying and cyber bullying with women in the township. She has also engaged with learners and teachers from Ferndale Primary school where her daughter is a learner. “One of the objectives of my work is to make people in Freedom Park aware on the meaning of Human Rights day on the 21nd March and how we as community collectively can fight crime,” she said. Samsam is currently not employed, but said she is absolutely passionate about helping children and adults about the dangers of bullying and cyberbullying. “One of the greatest achievements of my work though using the 1000 Women Trust course material is that I have created enormous awareness amongst children of the dangers of bullying and how they can fight for themselves to fend off bullies, but also how they can engage with teachers to help protect them from perpetrators of bullying,” said Samsam. “One of the greatest enjoyments of my work is that when I walk across a field in Freedom Park, they shout my name, they know what I am doing and that I am making a difference,” she adds. 1000 Women Trust is a women-led organization whose mission it is to raise awareness, empower survivors and work towards eradicating all forms of violence against women. The Trust firmly believes that by uniting their voices, they can create lasting change and build a safer world for women and girls everywhere.
by Karen Specter 18 Feb, 2024
The prominent women-led organization 1000 Women Trust, a leading NGO in the fight against gender-based violence, has launched a major national campaign urging parents to make a pledge to #MakeTime to speak to their sons to teach them about consent, boundaries and respect for women – and in this simple act, join the cause of fighting against the ongoing, horrific levels of gender-based violence. The campaign centres on a children’s doll – Krissy Doll – that appears to have been brutally assaulted, exhibiting all the hallmarks of domestic violence. In a digital film, two young girls are playing with the doll, putting make-up on the doll’s face to cover up cuts and bruises. “Our Krissy Doll is a strong denotation of how women cover up or hide the abuse or violence that is inflicted upon them. By showing a potential future in which little girls accept battered and bruised dolls as if this were the norm, we are hoping to shock South Africans into having critical conversations with their sons”, says Tina Thiart, co-founder and trustee of 1000 Women Trust. South African president Cyril Ramaphosa has said, "Gender-based violence thrives in a climate of silence. With our silence, by looking the other way because we believe it is a personal or family matter, we become complicit in this most insidious of crimes.” To assist adults in navigating these difficult conversations, 1000 Women have made free-for-all digital resources available at talkingtoboys The site hosts age-appropriate talking points and tips on how to speak to boys from the age of one to young men in their teens, an auto-calendar function to set a reminder to make time, and the option to share a pledge to #MakeTime on Facebook and Twitter to drive further awareness of the need to “teach our sons the right way”. “All we’re asking is for South Africans to #MakeTime to speak to their sons. Words are powerful and children’s behaviour and attitudes are learnt, shaped and moulded by those who care for them. If every South African took just half an hour a month to talk to their sons, or boys in their care, about the right way to think and act, consent, boundaries and respect for women, we would soon see less violence, abuse, rape and murder,” says Thiart. But it is not only our sons. Women also need to rethink how they view themselves. A recent survey indicated that when asked if it is acceptable for a man to hit a woman, 3.3% of men and 2.3% of women in South Africa said that it is. Despite the percentage being small, it will never be possible to completely eliminate violence against women while there are still women who believe that it is acceptable to be hit by a man, at the same time not understanding their constitutional rights or what is regarded as socially unacceptable behaviour. “So, while making time to talk to our sons, we also need to encourage our daughters and help them understand that abuse is not okay. Abuse against them, or against anyone they care about should not be covered up. We can’t remain silent, we need to speak up if we want change,” says Thiart. “Through this campaign we hope that each and every South African will take up the responsibility to have these types of conversations with our children from an early age, so that it becomes a social norm and prevents these crimes from following our daughters into the future”. To find out more, pledge your support to make time to talk to your children, visit talkingtoboys and join the conversation at #MakeTime on social media. FOR MEDIA QUERIES Tina Thiart 1000 Women trustee 0732079079 Lara Fouche Assistant to the Trustee 0842361860
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