Reports of young girls raped and sexually abused at the Machocks-tavern in Railton, a suburb of Swellendam in the Overberg-district of the Western Cape, and 168 complaints lodged at the police station by one women over a period of more than a decade that was not attended to – these were all part of the heartbreaking stories related by women who attended a #HearMeToo-session in Swellendam on Human Rights Day at the Christian congregation in Theunissen Street.
Emma Patientia, facilitator of the #HearMeToo-movement of 1000 Women Trust and also chairperson of the John Matthysen community centre (JOMACC), said more than twenty women attended the #HearMeToo-sessions on Human Rights Day.
A central theme during the session was the concern by women living in Railton who spoke about the late-night screams by young girls attacked by men while at the Machocks-tavern run by foreigners in the suburb.
According to Patientia, the police in Swellendam is apparently afraid to go to the Machocks-tavern due to safety concerns.
There are some girls from schools in Swellendam who visit the tavern, and women in Swellendam fear for their safety, due to consistent reports of sexual abuse.
Patientia said her slogan during the #HearMeToo-session was ‘Break the silence’. She assured the attendants that the meeting was a safe space for women and that their identity would be protected.
One woman who attended the #HearMeToo-session, was in tears and shared that she wanted to commit suicide because of her pain and torment due to gender-based violence over many years.
Another woman said she lodged complaints on 168 occasions at the police station, but not one was attended to. “I walked away each time as the loser. The abuse by my partner took place over many years,” she said.
Her two daughters suffered the same fate, as their boyfriends also abused them over many years,
Patientia invited a police officer who deals with gender abuse to the #HearMeToo-session. She initially promised to attend, but later made an excuse that she was away for the long weekend, and said that she would organize somebody else to assist.
When Patientia contacted her again on WhatsApp, there was no response.
“One of the main reasons for the magnitude of abuse in Railton and Swellendam is that many men still consider women as their possession, while so many women are economically dependent on their partners of husbands. And so many women still wrongly think that they are inferior to men,” said Patientia.
“I recalled that my husband and I once saw a woman in the area who as dragged on the ground by her partner through the street and he was armed with a long knife. We saw how he entered the door of a house, and we immediately called the police.
“When they knocked on the door, the woman answered the knock and told them there was nothing wrong,” Patientia said.
“This is an example of a woman who was probably living with somebody whom she was dependent on.
“So many women don’t have the guts to stand up to the abusers because they have dependency-issues.
“Some women think that when they are married, the man’s word is the law and that they don’t have any say.
“Patriarchy is still evident in part of the society of Swellendam and Railton,” she added.
Patientia said she plans another #HearMeToo-session in April and her goal is to visit schools in Swellendam and invite girls to the session to make them aware of abuse and how they can access help and support.
One of the greatest challenges she has, is that so many organizations and the churches are operating in silos. “It is vital that organizations, churches and the police act in unison to stamp out gender-based violence and abuse. We are stronger together,” she says.
“Some people think if their neighbours suffer trauma, it won’t affect them. But we are all part of one community and we have to work hard to make this a better country. What is needed in the fight against gender-based violence is a united front.”
If people are interested in attending a #HearMeToo-session in Railton or Swellendam, they can go the Jomacc Drama facebook. Alternatively, they can contact Patientia on 073-8489760.
The 1000 Women Trust launched #HearMeToo as part of a healing project for survivors of gender-based violence – sharing the stories. The organization invites all survivors to share their stories to heal and help others to heal.
The 1000 Women Trust is a women’s organization that aims to raise awareness around gender-based violence, rape and abuse, and mobilize resources. These resources make it possible for the Trust to assist women-led organizations with grants and skills development.
Women who are suffering from any form of gender-based violence, and seek assistance, can contact the national DDS’s gender-based violence command centre on 0800 428 428.
Or they can utilize the Please Call me service on *120*7867#
They can also SMS “Help” to 31351. Another option is to search Helpme GBV on Skype.
Women who want to contact 1000 Women Trust, can visit the website on www.1000women.co.za , or contact Tina Thiart, trustee of the Trust, on WhatsApp on 073-2079079.
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