by Karen Specter
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20 February 2025
Bullying on the rise: zero tolerance the best deterrent, says Thiart Over the past few weeks multiple incidents of school violence and bullying have gone viral on social media. Western Cape Education is probing a case where a Grade 8 pupil was ambushed inside a toilet. In another incident an 18-year-old pupil was attacked after school, sustaining injuries to her face. The mother of a Grade 8 pupil assaulted by a group of older boys who ambushed him inside a toilet, pushed his head into a toilet bowl, and smeared his face and uniform with faeces has taken the matter to the police, who have assigned a detective to investigate. (Source: news24.com , 11 th February 2025) After the humiliating incident at Leiden High School in Delft on 31 January, videos and pictures were posted on social media platforms. Education activists, fellow parents and some pupils of the school have since called for the school's principal to intervene and suspend those involved in the horrific bullying. Pretty Nketu, the mother of the victim, said since the school appeared to show no concern for her son, failed to keep her updated and did not inform her of steps that would be taken against the alleged perpetrators, she decided to go to the police herself. "My son was covered in human faeces and left to fend for himself. He was not even allowed to clean himself up and was told to wait for me till I came to bring him clean clothes. Nketu said: He had to stand next to a dirt bin while flies buzzed around him, and pupils laughed and took photos of him. Do you know how embarrassing that is to any child? He did not deserve this. And this is why I got the police involved. She said the police told her that a detective would be assigned to her son's case and those responsible would face the full might of the law. Western Cape police spokesperson Lieutenant Colonel Malcolm Pojie said both the mother and child were present at the Delft police station to register a case of common assault for further investigation. "Preliminary information reveals that the victim, a boy, asked for permission to go to the toilet, and as he left [the toilet], four boys grabbed him and forced him into the toilet. "They forced his face into the toilet bowl and washed his face with waste from the toilet," Pojie said. The police said no arrests have been made and that the matter is under investigation. In Asherville in KZN, three pupils were left injured after an alleged racially fuelled fight outside a high school. In Joburg, a mother rushed to school after she received a call from her daughter who . On Wednesday morning 5 th February, a protest was held outside the school in Delft. Parents, pupils, and community members called for the principal to be removed from the school for failing to properly address the incident.. "Those perpetrators are still among the [pupils], still walking in and out of the school and showing no remorse. It's upsetting to us as a family that my son is at home, yet the perpetrators are still in the school," Nketu said. Tina Thiart, co-founder and director of 1000 Women Trust, one of the leading organizations in the fight against bullying and gender-based violence in the county, said according to statistics, a staggering 3.2 million children in South African Schools are bullied annually. “Since the inception of our anti-bullying campaigns in 2018, we have compiled an anti-bullying toolkit to be used by schools and parents. We started off in the Western Cape, but also branched out to the Northern Cape, Limpopo and the Free State. To date, more than 7000 children, teaches and parents have benefited from the anti-bullying course material which we have shared with them the past seven years,”” Thiart said. Thiart warned that cyberbullying is rife in SA schools. According to a recent survey, more than three children out of 10 have been cyerstalked or been a victim of online shaming or revenge porn. Thiart said in a trauma-informed school, the best deterrent to bullying and cyberbullying is to create a culture of acceptance and communication. Such a culture empowers learners to find positive ways to resolve conflicts and has an administration, teachers and other staff who can support learners in making constructive decisions and respond proactively when the aggression of any kind exists on the school campus. An important first step to take for schools, is to establish an anti-bullying and a zero-tolerance policy at schools, said Thiart. “In addition we need to create awareness of cyberBullying as young people do not understand how cyberbullying and using your phone can be harmful to people. It is also a crime,” warned Thiart. For more information on what 1000 Women Trust is doing, visit www.bullying.org.za , visit the website on www.1000women.co.za or send Thiart a whatsupp on 061-4690479 if you want your school or teachers or parents to do the anti-bullying course.