Mkhize, ambassador of 1000 Women Trust, shares struggles with psychological abuse
Her own personal experience with a toxic relationship which ended in immense psychological abuse and required enormous effort, support and therapy to overcome, was one of the factors which motivated her to become an ambassador of 1000 Women Trust, says Ntsiki Mkhize, a former Miss South Africa second princess, author and internationally acclaimed speaker.
Mkhize, founder of MentHer, a platform that shares inspirational stories of social entrepreneurs on their journey of creating social impact, is currently working on the second edition of her inaugural book, My Hall of Mentors.
Mkhize was frank about her own challenges: “I have personally experienced a toxic relationship that ended in immense psychological abuse. It took a tremendous amount of effort, support and therapy to get back to feeling my old self.
“Equally as a coach working with female founders, I have seen firsthand how education and financial freedom can support women to exit toxic and abusive situations. I want to be a voice to show that abuse can happen in many ways. I also want to show women that we can overcome.”
She says she knows people who have experienced gender-based violence and she has been part of their support system. The most strenuous aspect of GBV has been the impact on the children, and how to support them to find stability.
Asked what her advice to be on SA women who suffer from GBV, Mkhize said: “Build a body of evidence and get an exit plan.” She added that a plan to leave will help you know where to go, have some savings and know who to call. Placing clothes and important documents with someone you can trust, can assist with the process, she added.
Mkhize gave her first TEDx Talk at Cumbernauld Women and was featured as the youngest speaker at the International Speakers Summit and Epic Entrepreneurs Virtual conference in 2020.
Asked what her advice would be to women who want to be more successful, Mkhize said one must get clear about your own goals and what it is you want to achieve and then say it out load. “Belief and confidence are the first steps. You have to know you can do it. Then find people who can support you. Mentors and a strong network are critical,” she said.
The 1000 Women Trust is a South African Women's Rights Organisation dedicated to combating gender-based violence and femicide (GBVF). For over two decades, we've been empowering GBV Community Organisations nationwide, advocating for change and resilience.
For more information, visit the website on www.1000women.co.za or send a mail to info@1000women.co.za.
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