Three female teachers killed by boyfriends left Vereeniging-schools in need of counselling
Schools in Vereeniging bear the brunt of the tragic deaths of three 33-year old female teachers who were murdered by their boyfriends in 2024, and are struggling to come to terms with the femicides, says Ntolo Nthoroane, an educational convenor and social worker at the Kgomoco Primary School.
Femicide is generally understand to involve the intentional murder of women because they are women, but broader definitions include any killins of women or girls.
Refilwe Majatladi, a teacher at Mahareng Secondary School, Palesa Mofokeng, a teacher at Riverside High and Stella Skhosan, a teacher at Thuto-Lore Comprehensive School, were all murdered by their boyfriends of former boyfriends in 2024.
“These femicides have left many learners and teachers at schools in this (Vereeniging ) area deeply traumatized. These schools are in dire need of counselling to come to terms with these tragic events,” said Nthoroane.
“We are hoping that 1000 Women Trust can make their trauma councilors available to the schools in Vereeniging where many learners and teachers are adversely affected,” she added.
“We are doing group work with women and men to talk about the root causes of gender-based violence,” she said.
“I believe these femicides were caused by boyfriends who wanted to have ownership of their girlfriends and when the relationships broke down, they tried to maintain ownership by killing their girlfriends,” said Nthoroane.
“The scale of femicides is horrible and the schools are feeling it deeply because three female teachers who were only 33 years old, died during this year at the hand of their boyfriends.
“We are doing specific work with male teachers in our school environments with regards to how they process emotions in everyday life,” she added.
“A priest at a memorial service of one of the three women said the murder made him ashamed to be a man,” said Nthoroane.
Nthoroane said one of the most alarming aspects of life at schools in the Vereeniging-area is that bullying is rife, especially in secondary schools.
The women-led organization 1000 Women Trust estimates that bullying affects 57 % of learners in SA schools and that 90 % of bullies go on to become perpetrators of gender-based violence.
The murder-rate of women has increased from 10 murders per 100000 women in 2021 to 13 per 100000 in 2023 according to the latest crime statistics released by the SA police service.
In 2021, 3121 women were reported killed, an average of 8.6 women a day. In 2023, that number increased to 3880, an average of 10.6 women a day. South Africa’s gender-based violence rate is one of the worst in the world.
1000 Women Trust is one of the organizations in South Africa spearheading the fight against gender-based violence. The organization has also impacted the lives of at least 5000 teachers and parents with its ant-bullying-toolkit. Currently, 550 people are doing 1000 Women Trust’s anti-bullying course on-line.
The 1000 Women Trust is a women’s organization that aim to raise awareness around gender-based violence, rape and abuse and mobilize resources. These resources make it possible for the Trust to assist women-led organizations with grants and skills development. For more information, contact the Trust on 061-4690479.
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