A comprehensive, wide-ranging talk with 720 learners from Grade R to Grade 7 to make them aware of the importance of respect between boys and girls and the need of gender equality while displaying an orange cloth around a tree in the eco garden, has caused a buzz at Bergvliet Primary School and has had a profoundly positive impact on the school.
The very successful talk, by Brenda van Niekerk, a computer science teacher at the school, was followed by a decision of the school to donate R7000 to 1000 Women Trust, a women-led NGO in South Africa who is committed to combating gender-based violence and femicide in the country.
Said Van Niekerk: “I was just aware at what has been happening in the country and in communities, and we are aware of so many children who are raised in families where so much (gender-based) violence happens. It can sometimes become a norm, and almost acceptable to some people.
“I wanted to highlight the importance of respect for each other, and about how valuable it is to end this anger while challenging the assumption that it is okay for one person to hurt somebody else just because the offender is stronger or have more power,” said Van Niekerk.
“This (gender-based violence) is an extremely sensitive topic. Therefore I had to be very careful about what the talk would be, especially with the very young children in the foundational phase.
“I asked one of the councillors to give me some ideas for the very young children. I am also the Eco Club founder and developed an Eco Garden. I then placed an orange cloth around one of the trees which I am calling an awareness tree for my points of discussion.
“For the foundational phase learners, I addressed the issue of respect. I used the example of a three-legged stool and pointed to the importance of respecting the world around us, respecting others and respecting yourself. Children gave examples of each. I did this because I believe that it starts with understanding each other because of culture and religion but because of gender differences.
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“With the older children I mentioned the three R’s for respect but the topic was mainly about gender inequality. Inequality in the workplace; the assumption that only men can do certain things; sport was a big topic of discussion. The older children completed a poster about what gender inequality looks like. We ended the week dressed in black and I asked for a voluntary R5 donation to show a symbol of courage and strength representing solidarity with victims and survivors of violence.”
Van Niekerk said part of the culture of the school is that girls play in the boys cricketing and football teams, while boys are allowed to play in the girls netball teams.
Van Niekerk said the school has a zero-tolerance policy with regards to bullying. A previous deputy principal of the school ran a campaign in which she highlighted the importance to not be a bystander, but an upstander. That meant that learners should not stand idly by when somebody is bullying somebody else, but that they should speak out against the offender, and report it.
Although there is occasionally bullying behaviour, the school has a strong anti-bullying policy and act against offenders.
Van Niekerk said she hopes the school’s campaign against disrespect, gender inequality and gender-based violence would be endorsed and implemented by all schools nationwide.
She said she trusts that the R7000 would be used by 1000 Women Trust for its trauma training courses or for a campaign to offer a haven for women subjected to gender-based violence.
In 2020, 1000 Women Trust launched a national campaign called #MakeTime, to implore parents of children from primary school level to secondary school grade 12, to invest time to share the values of non-violence, gender equality, respect and consent with their sons when they communicate and socialize with girls and women.
1000 Women Trust’s anti-bullying campaigns that has reached more than 3500 parents and teachers across South Africa, has become immensely popular as many schools in Limpopo, Western Cape, Northern Cape and the West Coast have reached out to the NGO to train their teachers and learners about the different forms of bullying, including verbal and cyber bullying.
The #HearMeToo-campaigns of 1000 Women Trust have had a nationwide audience and impact.
Since the COVID 19-pandemic, 1000 Women Trust has also launched a women empowerment business network to assist women who have lost their jobs during COVID to relaunch their careers. Many women entrepreneurs nationwide have benefited from 1000 Women Trust’s initiative.
For more information about the work of 1000 Women Trust, visit the website on www.1000women.co.za , whatsupp Tina Thiart, the director of the Trust, on 0732079079 or e-mail the Trust on info@1000women.co.za.
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